What is your definition of "bribe" and "reward" when it comes to children?
When you "bribe" or "reward" your child, you are providing something in exchange for them doing what you expect them to do.
What is the difference between "bribing" and "rewarding" your child?
Bribing:
Imagine a mother shopping and her child acting out and running wild in the shopping area. The mother gets frustrated and embarrassed, so she decides to "make a deal" with her child: if her kid settles down and behaves, he will get a candy bar or a toy.
This remedy is effective only temporarily.
It is important to understand that bribery can establish a recurring behavior in your child, encouraging them to misbehave in order to achieve their desires.
Children will continue to employ this tactic as long as it yields results.
Rewarding:
In general, everybody loves rewards, whether adults or kids.
A reward may consist of "praises, attention, and acknowledgment" or a tangible incentive that holds value for your child, such as toys, games, books, a trip to the playground, and more.
Come out with a list of rewards with their child ahead of time. That way, when your child behaves, he knows he will be rewarded.
Here is a tip!
What is an effective way to provide positive reinforcement for your child's good behavior?
Provide attention, sincere praises, and acknowledgment.
A genuine "pat on the back" or a "hug" for the progress or improvement in his behavior.
Reward your child with toys, games, books, and others.
Make sure the toys you are buying are educational toys or things that are beneficial to your child.
Reminder: Every child is motivated differently. When implementing parenting strategies, you should be flexible, open, and responsive to your child's needs.
PS. The same goes for teaching your child to concentrate in their flashcard lesson.
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